Life Story / Obituary
Loving, caring, and persevering, Bobbie Masalkowski lived a life rich in family and friends. A woman who embraced each moment as a gift, Bobbie always found a way to make life better for those around her. No matter how challenging the circumstance, Bobbie chose to be kind and generous. She followed her heart in all things and loved being busy, especially when it involved sharing time with her loved ones. A devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and friend, Bobbie will long be remembered by those she so dearly loved.
1947 proved to be a year of continued celebration of the nation's momentous victory in World War II. America's heroes eagerly returned home to a country filled with renewed spirit and hope, ready to claim their share of the American Dream that they had fought so proudly for overseas. As American prosperity grew like never before in our history, hope sprang eternal, and the Greatest Generation soon proliferated, giving rise to the Baby Boomers. Bobbie was born on January 10, during this time of great hope. Though Bobbie's childhood was far from ideal, she and her grandparents, who raised her, made the most of the situation. She grew up in Grand Rapids, Michigan, where the seeds of her persevering spirit took root and she strove to rise above her circumstances. Bobbie attended Roger's High School. Although she didn't participate in many groups or teams, she successfully navigated her way through.
After working a few odd jobs out of high school, she met her future husband, Martin, while working at a factory down on Century Ave. Martin had recently returned from Active Duty in the military and was working at the factory momentarily. The couple hit it off and began dating.
Bobbie and Martin dated for four years before getting married in 1970 in Grand Rapids. As soon as they married, Bobbie became a homemaker, devoting herself to taking care of the household, cooking, and her growing family, which eventually included four children. Brian, Thomas, Sarah, and Jeff were the centers of Bobbie's world, and she worked hard to provide them with a loving and supportive home.
She was a terrific mother, easy-going, caring, and always modeling generosity and serving others. Always on the go, Bobbie relished being busy, especially when doing for others. There was never a dull moment with Bobbie; she really valued her independence and loved having her own car, which Martin had bought for her. Her children recall being forced to accompany her on shopping trips. She enjoyed shopping at her favorite stores frequently. Bobbie socialized with the older women in the neighborhood, and they taught her many things she didn't know. She grew to be very crafty and enjoyed crocheting, knitting, and sewing her kids' clothes. She laughed while watching The Golden Girls, and loved animals, especially the family's golden retriever-lab mix. Camping was always a fun time for the family, and when the kids grew a little older, they enjoyed spending time at their cottage on the lake in the Upper Peninsula.
As a couple, Bonnie and Martin were stuck together like glue and did everything together. They especially enjoyed boating and skiing on Lake Michigan, as well as their garden. Bonnie tended the plants, and Martin canned the bounty. When their family grew and Bobbie became a grandmother, she eagerly stepped into her new role with signature care and thoughtfulness. She was a tremendous help to her family when her grandson was born.
Sadly, Bobbie struggled with dementia for the past nine years. Despite the challenges, her family was by her side the entire way, with her husband, Martin, leading the way as her primary care provider. With her family's loving support, Bobbie was able to live the rest of her life with her husband in the comforts of their home.
As we celebrate Bobbie's life, may we find much comfort in our many treasured memories. May we also find comfort in the honor of carrying her legacy of generous love and care forward. In each moment, we freely give of our time and talents in service to others, cheer on our loved ones' endeavors, and share life's simple pleasures with our beloveds, keeping Bobbie's memory alive and inspiring hope and perseverance.
Bobbie Masalkowski, aged 78 of Grand Rapids, passed away on September 29, 2025, with her loving family at her side. She is survived by her husband of 56 years, Martin Masalkowski; her children, Brian (Sonya) Carpenter, Thomas Masalkowski, Sarah Masalkowski, and Jeff Masalkowski; her grandchildren, Jagger, Ella, and Hudson; as well as many nieces, nephews, and friends.
A private burial took place at Holy Cross Cemetery. To learn more about Bobbie's life, sign her guest book, and share a memory of her, please visit her webpage at www.Heritagelifestory.com.
